Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Important Reminders

My cousin, Shauna, lost a dear friend to cancer today. It is usually times like this that we tend to evaluate our own lives. This isn't going to be a full blog post. I just have a few reminders for everyone.

  1. Live life to the fullest every single day. We all go through hard times but in the grand scheme of things, those moments are few and far between. Remember what I said about the “roller-coaster” in my blog a few days ago? Life is all about ups and downs.

  2. Love your family. Love your friends. We all get annoyed by those close to us at times but you know what? No-one is perfect. We all have idiosyncrasies and traits that drive those close to us crazy but, it's those little things that make us unique. Be patient. Be understanding.

  3. Don't let petty arguments and disagreements destroy a friendship or relationship. Talk things out, people. We must TALK to each other and practice forgiveness.

  4. Love YOURSELF...for who you are, as you are. Getting down about things like weight or a zit is a waste of precious time (note to self: practice what you preach Stacey). Don't beat yourself up over insignificant things.

  5. And last, be kind to each other. Not just those you are close to, but to strangers as well. You never know what personal battle people are fighting. Your smile or kind words could make someone's day.

You know I love you,

Stacey xo

PS. Don't worry...I'll be back to bitching about something tomorrow ;).

Smart Girls vs. Dumb Girls

Smart girls-Are independent.
Dumb girls-Need men to “take care of them”.

Smart girls-Are individuals.
Dumb girls-Are followers.

Smart girls-Have personal style.
Dumb girls-All look exactly the same.

Dumb girls.

Smart girls-Have money in their savings accounts.
Dumb girls-Think cash registers at the local mall are their savings accounts.

Smart girls-Choose friends who are true.
Dumb girls-Choose friends who have “connections”.

Smart girls-Eat.
Dumb girls-Starve themselves.

Smart girls-Have opinions and aren't afraid to voice them.
Dumb girls-Couldn't have a debate if their lives depended on it.

Smart girls-Are genuine.
Dumb girls-Are fake.

Smart girls-Don't care what anyone thinks.
Dumb girls-Care what everyone thinks.

Smart girls.

Smart girls-Will date a man for who he is.
Dumb girls-Will date a man because of his bank account.

Smart girls-Think a fulfilling life is about family, friends and having a warm bed, food and a roof over their head.
Dumb girls-Think a fulfilling life is about having the right purse, bling and monthly Botox injections.

Smart girls-Are who they ARE.
Dumb girls-Pretend they are someone they are not.

Smart girls-Rock.
Dumb girls-Suck.

Any questions?

You know you love me,

Stacey xo